Your kid could be a super star. You should make big plans for them, see that they have every opportunity and push them towards things they may not try. You should make them follow your hopes and dreams and exclude them from all thinking. Push them into things you want them to try and stress them out.
Or, you could be the kind of parent that guides and listens; keeps and open mind about your kids ideas. You could accept their failures and help them learn from their mistakes. You could cheer them on when they are successful. What kind of parent are you?