You need to tighten your circle of close friends. The people that do things for you when you don’t even ask are you true friends. People that notice you are struggling and pick up the slack without being asked, are the ones you want in your life. You don’t always know what you need, that is why you need good people around you. Give your time and efforts to the people that build you up and support you. Limit the people that always take from you.