Don’t go around with a poor me mentality. You can be pitiful or you can be powerful; you can’t be both. People that problem solve, don’t have time to feel poorly about themselves. Concentrate on accomplishing your goals, staying on track. When something gets in your way don’t stop, go over, around or through it and keep going. A powerful person must be committed to their goals, in the good times and the difficult ones. There is no time feeling sorry for yourself when you want to be successful and happy.